This weekend away from the city was so restful. Not what you probably think of when you think “bachelorette party” but it was. Nicole is super laid back, so the weekend was similar. No real plans or agenda, just doing whatever, whenever.
We took the train out to Bridgehampton on Friday afternoon and got to the house around 4pm. The house was found on Home Away and although the outside appeared a little sketch when we pulled up, it was really cute and cozy inside.
Friday night we chatted and chatted, drank wine, ate pizza + salad and had a little lingerie shower for Nicole. I stayed up a little later talking with a couple girls and then we all fell asleep by 12:30 or so.
I think now that my body is so use to the 5:30-6am wake up during the week that I found it really hard to sleep in this weekend. I hate that, but oh well. I was one of the first girls up on Saturday around 7:30am, but that was perfect since I had some quiet time to read, drink coffee and just be.
We ate breakfast and laid around the pool in the morning and afternoon.
Some girls had gone running in the morning, but I hate moving my body first thing in the morning when it’s the weekend. Give me that easy, slow morning with a big breakfast and lots of coffee.
But around noonish I was itching to move my legs and explore the town and I needed a social break to clear my head so I went on a slow run down to Sag Harbor and walked around the town for a bit while listening to a podcast.
How cute is this house and this town?? I could have wandered around for hours.
This house was insane. I can’t only imagine what it’s worth.
I got back, we snacked on cold cuts and chips and crackers for lunch and then we all got ready to head out to a vineyard before dinner.
We ended up at Wölffer Estate Vineyard where they had live music and really good rosé. We laid out on a blanket and hung around there for a couple of hours. Pretty vineyards with good people and good wine is my happy place. Charlottesville, Sonoma, Stellenbosch, Napa, Long Island or the Hamptons…I don’t care where we are, but if a vineyard is involved I’m so happy.
Then we headed to dinner at the South Hampton Social Club. We split a bunch of small plates including these lobster rolls and then ordered several rolls of sushi. But what I was most into was this tiramisu for dessert. SO fluffy and creamy.
And then we came home, sat around in the living room chatting and headed to bed.
I had originally planned on catching an eleven-ish train back into the city since I had plans to meet one of my friends from nursing school for lunch who was coming into the city and I never get to see her. But then we looked at the train schedule and there was only a 7:40am train and a 12pm train. Soooo annoying. But another girl had to leave early to catch a flight back to California so I took the 7:40am train with her back to the city. The other girls stayed for the afternoon and explored the town and beach.
Even with the early departure, it was still such a fun and relaxing weekend. I went into the weekend not really knowing anyone except of course, Nicole. But that’s what I love about these weekends, you make friends so fast and feel like you’ve known them for so much longer than 48 hours. And I loved getting to peak into Nicole’s world and getting to know her closest people.
They’re getting married in four weeks at a vineyard in Napa and based on the above paragraphs on how I feel about vineyards…to say I’m excited is an understatement.
Hope you all had a great weekend too – share you favorite part in the comments!
emily vardy says
That sounds like such a nice bachelorette weekend… I’m definitely not into the boozy wild weekends, so this sounds perfect to me! Glad you had a nice time
Carrie this fit chick says
THAT vineyard is adorable! I love the look of the houses and buildings there. Very cute architecture. I feel you on not being able to sleep in- thats me on weekends!
Elizabeth says
I always love your necklaces!! Where do you usually find them?
Robyn says
gap, j crew and I LOVE the company fashionABLE 🙂
Elizabeth says
That’s great, thanks Robyn! Sometimes I like big necklaces from LOFT if you’re ever looking for somewhere else to try!
Emily says
That town is beautiful; those are my favorite kind of towns. I loved seeing your snaps of exploring the little town. Buying a house in that town would be so cool, but I bet they’re not cheap.
And that weekend looks so restful; I hope each one of you was so refreshed and filled up by spending that sweet time with the bride to be.
Robyn says
ha soooooo out of our price range 🙂
hope you had a wonderful weekend too!
Meah says
A relaxing weekend like this sounds absolutely perfect! I’d love to take a trip to the Hamptons. Exploring cute towns with unique houses is my fave. The best part of my weekend was trail running with a friend. Surrounded by trees, I feel like I can breath so much deeper. Plus, he brought watermelon and cantaloupe for us to eat afterwards. Score!
xxMeah
Robyn says
I love trail running so that sounds great!
Koala says
I find you so inspiring, and admire your insight and intelligence immensely, but I have to say that you have the most sparkly and beautiful eyes!
Robyn says
hahah aww thanks koala 🙂
Megan @ A Continual Feast says
The Hamptons look awesome! Sounds like such a fun and “intuitive” weekend. My favorite part of our weekend was probably our Sunday night small group. It’s always such a nice way to end the weekend and begin the week!
Robyn says
oh that sounds lovely!
Julianne says
That tiramisu omg!! I had to laugh at the lobster comment in your newsletter, and then I thought about it again seeing those lobster roles haha. I love fresh lobster but not lobster roles. All I need is some drawn butter! Glad you had a restful weekend Robyn 🙂
Julianne says
**ROLLS hahaha
Robyn says
Those lobster rolls was when I figured out that I didn’t like them AT ALL. ha
Sarah @ Bucket List Tummy says
I love when bachlorette parties can actually be relaxing. What a beautiful setting and that QUAINT town!
Robyn says
me too, my kind of party 🙂
Becca says
How were the other women in terms of body acceptance, IE etc.? I know you said you only new Nicole beforehand and I was wondering how you navigate if people are not on board with intuitive eating, movement, and your approach to nutrition and exercise?
Robyn says
I try to just have conversations if people are open and there were opportunities for that this weekend– as it is almost always a topic of conversation when you get in a group of women 🙂
Aubrey T. says
This looks so fun and nice!:)
Julia says
Lovely article about the Hamptons but you spelled Southampton incorrectly!
Julie says
Did you hve to make a reservation at Wolffer estate for a large party or did they just take you guys as walk in? I’m planning my best friends bachelorette now but for a party of 14, they are saying they only accept it at their Wine Stand location. Did you have any trouble?