We’ve now been in Boston for barely more than 72 into hours and I’m wondering why it took us so long to move here?
Just kidding. New York was good and right in its own way.
But Boston, I feel like my chest has loosened and I’ve been lifted out of a pressure cooker and into a crock pot. I don’t feel as rushed, trapped, emotionally drained and overwhelmed and instead feel more margin (mainly due to closer proximity of the city, walking ability and less crowds to fight) in my day, less hurry and hustle, more space to breathe and think and just be and all around more calm. I know many people thrive in the uber fast pace and intense ambition of New York. And while I feel like yes, Boston still embodies some of that – it feels invigorating instead of all consuming. It seems people know how to chill out and slow down more here and everyone isn’t trying to crush life 24/7. I could be totally wrong (after all I’ve been here for 72 hours) but that’s what it feels like so far for me.
Friday morning I worked from a coffee shop and planned on a Barre3 class at noon. Then the broker we are working with told us he could show us several apts so the class got nixed and we spent a couple hours seeing apartments instead. We completely fell in love with one in the South End, submitted an application, but a couple submitted their application hours before us so we didn’t get it. We were pretty bummed but we applied for another one last night which is a bit smaller, but in a better location in the South End and significantly less $$ which is always good. Hopefully we will have a home today!
Lunch on Friday was buckwheat noodle salad from Flour.
Worked the rest of the afternoon. And around 6 we strolled over to Masa for a margarita and dinner.
We started with the nachos which were awesome. We planned on also ordering tacos but after we ate 95% of this plate I was full + satisfied.
Also so cool —-> we sat down at the bar next to this couple and about 20 minutes into drinking margaritas the girl leaned over and in the chillest voice goes, “Not to be weird, but I know you..” She was a reader. Hi Ashley! We talked to her and her fiancé for a while so that was super fun and unexpected.
After they left we ended up making friends with an older couple and talked to them for like an hour. It was a good night.
Saturday began with coffee + an Rxbar before I had a client call at 8:30. Then I went to a 9:45 Barre3 class. After moving all week and not being able to find time or not feeling like any formal movement, I was more than ready for an actual planned class. Verdict —> people there were so nice, the class was hard in the best way, and I’ll definitely be back.
Then I made a quick trip to the Trader Joe’s for breakfast + lunch food so we stop eating out so much.
Ate brunch. Eggs + toast and banana with sunbutter.
And Saturday afternoon was spent working on blog stuff at Render Coffee.
Later that evening we went out with a couple friends (the friends we are staying with, we haven’t made friends here that fast …) to Urban Grape for a wine tasting. We’ve been to this wine store a few times when we’ve visited and loved it. It’s such a social wine shop and the people there are very knowledgable and eager to help.
Afterward we walked over to Buttermilk and Bourbon for dinner which I’d describe as southern tapas. It was super dark inside so I didn’t take any photos. We order the honey biscuits, fried chicken, fried pickles, cajun guacamole with bbq kettle chips, and the wedge salad to split. Plus cocktails to drink – I went with the Manhattan. The food and service were great, we will definitely be back!
After dinner, we went back to the apartment for a fire and sat outside talking for a couple hours before going to bed. We won’t have outdoor space at our apartment (if we hopefully get it!) but Peter lives right around the corner, so we will just use his amazing outdoor patio 🙂
Sunday started with breakfast + church. We’re church shopping and I hope we find a church home sooner rather than later, but I know it can be a process. Yesterday we started by trying out Reality. Overall, we liked it. I’ve had some people message me on Instagram with church suggestions, but if any of you Boston readers know of good churches, send them my way!
We did a bigger grocery shop at Whole Foods after church IN OUR CAR. I can drive a car to the grocery. Such a simple thing but so life changing.
We ate leftover pizza for lunch. And then we found out we didn’t get the apartment we hoped for so our broker called and said he could show us another one that was similar. So we did that.
The rest of Sunday afternoon was spent laying and napping. Around 5pm I decided I was craving some movement and fresh air so went on a walk/run around Back Bay, Boston Commons and Beacon Hill. No music or phone. It was so pretty.
We made dinner for Peter + Phil (the two friends (and brothers) that are hosting us) along with their fiancés Sunday night. Spinach + feta burgers, salad, roasted cauliflower and sweet potatoes.
And then we promptly passed out by 9:45pm. I was totally exhausted.
I have several clients this morning and then will be at a coffee shop later this afternoon. Maybe I’ll do some yoga or something…or maybe just go on a walk.
I hope you guys had a great weekend too – share some relaxing things you did in the comments!
Jess says
We have gone to Citylife Presbyterian church for years and love it (meets in the Revere hotel). The South End is so great, hope you hear good news on the apartment!
Robyn says
we have that on our list to check out!
Kaitlyn @ Powered by Sass says
Boston seems like such a great city! I’ve only been there once during a layover to Germany, and my boyfriend and I spent the time we had walking the Freedom Trail, but I’d love to get back out there and explore!
Robyn says
you should! we are loving it so far
Hillary Parker says
Those margs look amazing!!
I read in bed with cozy Christmas lights on 🙂 Oh, and baked gingerbread muffins, mmmm.
Robyn says
gingerbread muffins! those sound fab
Ellen says
Your feeling of invigorating-not-all-consuming is exactly how I felt about Chicago vs NYC. So happy you’re loving it and I hope you get the apartment!
This weekend was pretty chilly/rainy in Paris and I was feeling kind of exhausted last week, so aside from getting outside for a walk, a grocery shop, and an exercise class, I spent most of my weekend in bed, writing blog posts and my last college essay. Super restful, and just what I needed before I finish school/go on vacation/go home. 🙂
Robyn says
We love Chicago too!! That sounds like a perfect weekend, congrats on wrapping up school 🙂
Carey Aiken says
Sounds like a great first weekend in Boston! My Husband and myself went for a 5 mile hike with our dog on Saturday in a place here in Scotland called the Green Loch (or Lake for those not familiar with the Scottish tongue!) and then Sunday afternoon was spent baking brownies and cookies with my hubby as well, his brownies turned out better than my cookies! 🙁 Everything was tasty though!
Robyn says
That sounds gorgeous!! And what a relaxing weekend 🙂
Amber @ Bloom Nutrition Therapy says
It cracks me up how excited you are to do grocery shopping in your car! Here I am trying to get grocery delivery to my home in the backwoods of Kentucky and absolutely despise going to the store. Lol!
Robyn says
haha my mom was like “I KNOW, a car at the grocery store, you’ve only mentioned it 10 times”
Manasa says
So happy the move is going well!!!
I love all your posts on hormones and female health etc, have you ever thought about doing a post on adult acne and hormones?
Robyn says
I havne’t yet but I can add it to the list!
Emily Swanson says
SO THRILLED that you found such a sweet restful spot in Boston and that you are in the midst of finding a church family too Robyn; it makes my heart happy to see how much you are settling into Boston and loving it there. I can imagine that the pace is so much better than New York City, and I can see you and Nick really blossoming and growing there.
I also love how intuitive you are with your body and how you nommed on the nachos with Nick until you were satisfied. I think my greatest fear that I’m facing right now is doing exactly that, but this was a real encouragement!
Robyn says
I hope you enjoy some nachos in the near future Emily! 🙂
emily vardy says
So excited for you and your new life! Also glad to hear you’re liking it so far and adjusting so well so quickly! Good luck with the apartment 🙂
Robyn says
Thank you Emily!!
Jojo says
Congrats on your move to Boston! I was actually just there for a day, and I had the exact same salad from Flour (plus some delicious pastries from there), except I ate it on the plane home. I feel the same way about Boston and New York, and I would love to visit Boston again in the near future. Hope everything goes well!