1. June Birthdays
June always flies by, feels super busy and is full of celebration! Between five family birthdays, a friend birthday and Nick’s birthday there’s birthdays every week. I feel like June is a popular birthday month? Cheers to June birthdays! Nick turns 29 tomorrow and so we celebrated this weekend with a progressive dinner party – progressive meaning, the wine paired with the food progressed from lighter to fuller bodied throughout the meal. Our favorite wine store, Urban Grape, is based on this philosophy and we have found it not only really fun to learn about wine this way, but so much less confusing and way more approachable. We went to a wine tasting event back in February where the owners walked us through this progressive philosophy and it was the best tasting I’ve been too because I felt like I really learned – if you’re interested, here’s more about the progressive scale and their book!
We started with a mega charcuterie board. We eat cheese boards often, so I wanted to make this one feel out of the ordinary. Bacon wrapped dates, prosciutto wrapped cantaloupe (sounds weird, tastes fab), a variety of cheeses and jams and nuts and dried fruit, artichoke bruschetta and lots of other things. The charcuterie was paired with a Lambrusco – a sparkling red wine that I have never had before but was very good. For dinner I searched Pinterest and made this arugula, cucumber and feta salad to start that we drank with a Venica Pinot Grigio from Italy and then the main course was this garlic basil chicken with tomato butter sauce over linguine that we drank with a red wine – a Cerasuolo di Vittoria. Lastly, for dessert I made up a “recipe” for a homemade ice cream cake because ice cream cake sounded awesome. I made a box of TJs brownies, layered on vanilla ice cream, then crushed up TJs version of Oreos (aka Jo Jos) + caramel sauce, more ice cream and then topped with whipped cream and chocolate shavings. I think everyone left with full bellies. I love to throw dinner parties and this was a fun way to mix it up – the recipes were simple to put together too so highly recommend those if you’re looking for easy meal ideas!
2. Nourishly
You may have seen this swirling around the internet. Recovery Record is an app used by a lot of RDs and clients to help in ED recovery. I have clients that use RR and I think it’s a great app. They recently released another app called Nourishly which is a more general nutrition app that helps people become healthier with features like tracking hunger and fullness, stress levels, sleep, meals, digestive problems and other symptoms. There was some uproar because it was being marketed as a “weight management” app and had diet centric features. Given that Nourishly and Recovery Record are under the same business umbrella, the messaging was conflicting and harmful. Marci Evans and Christy Harrison led the way with speaking out and the CEO of Recovery Record was so receptive! Everyone is going to make mistakes (I’ve made plenty!) …we are all human. The CEO responded with such humility and openness to feedback – I thought her response was really admirable. It was really encouraging to see the changes and to have an app now that promotes true health and helps people with health problems and chronic disease focus on getting well by emphasizing health promoting behaviors and not weight loss. Here’s a screen shot from their webpage that I think is fantastic.
3. This quote
This is something I feeling like I’ve been learning for the last six years and I’m going to keep learning for the next six+ years. Everything doesn’t matter. It’s hard to let stuff go. But letting go of stuff that doesn’t matter feels sooooooo good.
4. What if that thought wasn’t just true just for other people, but for me too?
A client emailed me some things that were clicking for her and one of them was this question. It seemed simple, but was rather profound. For myself when I was going through my own journey, and for many women I talk to, they are able to believe things for other people such as…. “their body won’t get out of control if they stop calorie counting” or “that person can be ___ size and they aren’t less valuable” or “my friend can eat ice cream and that doesn’t make her a bad person..” or “they can practice intuitive eating, that works for them” …but believing that for themselves seems impossible. But what if you asked yourself, “What if that wasn’t true just for them, but for me too?” This way of thinking is like an “exception effect” where things apply to everyone else except ourselves. I just made “exception effect” up, but there are probably areas in life this applies to outside of food too.
5. Freezer stash
I forgot about these for a hot second and I never will again. Who else picks up a package of these goodies for 99 cents every time you check out at Trader Joe’s?
Have a great week!
Annie says
oooh I didn’t know you could freeze those! Do you eat them straight from frozen?
Robyn says
yes!!
Tilson says
The TJ’s dark choco PB cups are TO DIE FOR!!!! They are a must-get for every TJ’s trip!
Robyn says
AGREED!
Sarah says
Wow, haha I guess June really IS a popular birthday month! We have 4 family birthdays in just one week of June…definitely a fun, celebratory month! 😉 Also, I am a biiiggg fan of those TJ’s PB Cups–the BEST!! I’ll have to try them frozen!
Robyn says
I feel like there are so many birthdays in June! Have fun celebrating! 🙂
Philippa Friswell says
Oh wow, that charcuterie board looks incredible! Goats Gouda is my FAVOURITE cheese x
Ashley says
I am obsessed with goat’s gouda too! It makes anything and everything taste epic!
Emily Swanson says
Wow it’s amazing how your client emailed you about that, because I think I often apply gracious standards especially around body image and self worth to other people, but I do not feel comfortable doing that to myself. But I don’t want to be a hypocrite and not believe what I say.
And you make such beautiful charcuterie boards. I just want to come and learn from you Robyn. You always put such sweet work into them.
domain 1$ says
Nice food to make party so embellishment through this delicious dish.
Amber @ Bloom Nutrition Therapy says
I like your discussion here abou the “exception effect”! I think that is a great way for people to maybe try and bridge the disconnect there between believing one thing is okay for others, but not for themselves. I think this strategy in the mental health world would be similar to Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (REBT). Which, essentially is that we focus on our irrational thoughts and beliefs about a situation or person and look for an approach to make them more rational. In this case, the rational statement would be, “What if that’s not just true for them, but me too?” Ultimately, the new belief can lead to better actions and behaviors (i.e. not engaging in the disordered eating behavior anymore). Love it! 🙂
Robyn says
I’ve never heard of REBT! I know of IFS, ACT, CBT, DBT etc but never that one – interesting! I’m going to read up now – thanks Amber!
Nicole @ Laughing My Abs Off says
I think Trader Joe’s is a genius for putting those in the checkout line. I mean, it’s IMPOSSIBLE not to grab a bag every time. Also great job on the birthday spread; it all sounds and looks so delicious! Happy belated to Nick 🙂
Jennifer says
Nick and I are one day apart in age! Too funny
Robyn says
haha love it!